Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Why Rwanda?

L:

That's a good question.

As our wait with China continued to lengthen, we began to ask the Lord if we should pursue another adoption while we waited. We were hoping to adopt again after our first adoption was complete. Perhaps we should instead adopt “again” now before our China adoption was complete? As we continued to pray and talk about this, our hearts were pulled more and more to pursue a concurrent adoption.

We wanted to stay with America World Adoption Agency because they are so committed to doing adoption in the right ways for all the right reasons. As we considered the other available countries with AWAA, Rwanda seemed like the logical choice for us for many reasons. However, we wanted to be sure.

When we had made the decision to adopt through China, three factors had come together to confirm our decision- a great need, a fairly smooth process, and China kept coming up everywhere in our lives during that period. With Rwanda, the first two factors seemed to be true again, but Rwanda just really wasn’t in our lives at all.

We decided, therefore, to ask the Lord to bring Rwanda into our lives if that was the country He wanted us to choose. We knew that it might not be His will to reveal His plan in this way. If Rwanda didn’t start popping up in our lives, that didn’t necessarily mean that He didn’t want us to go with Rwanda. However, if He did bring Rwanda to us in obvious ways, we’d know for sure that that was His direction for us.

Well, the next day, Nick was watching football and was flipping through the channels during the commercials. He stopped on a show about gorillas. After several minutes, we realized they were in Rwanda! Pretty cool. The next night, we were at our weekly meeting with our Truth Project group. The video that night included something about Rwanda!! We looked at each other and smiled. It seemed that maybe God was confirming His plan for our adoption to us in just the way we had asked. The next day, I received an e-mail newsletter. I hadn’t opened these e-mails for several months but decided to read this one. It had an article about Rwanda!!!

Three days in a row, God gave us a specific message about Rwanda. He didn’t have to answer our prayer in this way, but we are so thankful that He chose to give us this special gift. The confirmations didn’t continue daily, but He has brought Rwanda into our lives repeatedly since then and we are growing in love for this country and its people. We can’t wait until we get to travel!

5 comments:

  1. I LOVE that your church did the Truth Project! Such a great program in a very emergent world! Oh and I love the blog too:) Good to hear from you again. I hope we get to travel together!!!
    Becky Fisher

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  2. L:

    Thanks Becky. It'd be great if we get to travel together! Actually, our church hasn't done the Truth Project, but we've had the privilege to lead a few groups during the last couple of years. We love that it makes these important worldview issues accessible to so many people.

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  3. Are you still using America World adoption agency? What are your thoughts about them? We are thinking about adopting a sibling set from Ethiopia through them...would be interested to hear your feedback. Thanks.

    Gregory & Larissa Kramer
    Pennsauken NJ
    kramer85@comcast.net

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  4. L:

    Yes! We highly recommend America World. They do what they do in order to glorify God. They place a big emphasis on prayer. They have great concern for relating with each country in a sensitive, ethical way. Their heart for helping to bring orphans into loving families is evident throughout the process. We will provide more details in a personal e-mail.

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  5. Nice to meet another Rwanda family! We are working on an independent adoption from Rwanda. Congratulations on your decision and God bless!

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